If a man answers the phone; break it!!!
My hubby always does what he wants. When it comes to outings of any sort (of course I mean those he will even deign attend); movies, restaurants; ball games etc�he always gets his way. And before you ask, I will tell you some of the places he will not go, a chick flick (nope), a mall (not happening), the ballet (don�t even think about it), the opera ( oh hell no!), anyone�s wedding (laughter now)��I think you get my point. So how does he always get his way you ask?
First: Regarding movies, restaurants, games, etc�he never argues�ever. Just says he will or won�t go. And if he won�t go, he�ll say I (insert name of any friend, family or past girlfriend or wife, there have only been two�wives I mean!!) can go there with one of my friends. He is never ever controlling. So, no need of an argument.
Second: He always knows where he wants to go and he�s perfectly happy to have me come along, he�d love it in fact. So we almost always just go where he wants to go so we can be together because I do love spending time with him and I know otherwise, I�ll have to take someone else.
The problem you ask? Because obviously, I wouldn�t be going to all the trouble of typing this out, if there weren�t a problem. The problem is, he has never ever had to learn to compromise. Some may say, his way is a method of compromising but I feel that to compromise means sometimes you just don�t get your way! And the real problem lies in the fact that he is just so used to getting his way, that when he doesn�t he can be a real ass about it.
Does anyone have any advice on the care and training of husbands? I�m asking because I watched a hilarious old movie last night with Sandra Dee and Bobby Darrin called <�If a Man Answers� that had some unusual and comedic �hubby training� methods in it.
I�ll be waiting for YOUR ideas!
Hugs and love���..~ZEN
And for those of you wondering about my unusual use of capitalization in this entry. I typed it using MSWord because Diaryland ate my first entry and I wasn�t about to type this a third time!!!