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Prolifique - 2006-08-03 02:38:30
Oh, honey. I don't know what to say, but I have to at least offer a great big *hug* and the offer of an ear. My mailbox is always open to you.
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Stephanie - 2006-08-03 09:28:08
There is something very wrong when one partner thinks they have the right to exert complete control over the purse strings. Actually, it sounds like there are quite a few things wrong in the picture you have shown us, and I can identify with some of it from my own first marriage, which ended in divorce. What about counseling? Would he agree to that?
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Seacreature - 2006-08-03 13:27:54
Yyyeesss... Counseling is a good place to start. I know, we all want our marriages to be perfect. Everyone has their own relationship problems to work out. And you never really know what's down the road... You've put some time into this marriage, so you KNOW it's worth some more effort. These sound like some pretty serious issues. I think you are right to do something about this now, because you can't go on not being able to be yourself.
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stepfordtart - 2006-08-03 15:30:42
I frowning a lot at not being allowed to go to the shop. Where do you live again? Afghanistan? s x
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Cosmic - 2006-08-04 18:24:20
Sounds so much like my ex that it's scarey. He was the same way. I divorced him after 6 years and he remarried a few years after that. He started that with his new wife and she just told him if he had a problem he could leave. She put her foot down any time he started his power trip and guess what? They were married 20 years before she passed away. If I had known then what I know now, I would have asserted myself and probably have saved my marraige.
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